Beyond Behaviour Charts: A Guide to Supporting Behaviour with Connection and Understanding

You’ve probably used a chart before. Most of us have. But this guide unpacks why behaviour charts don’t lead to long-term growth—and what to do instead. You’ll learn how to shift from public shaming systems to strategies that build emotional safety, connection, and sustainable behaviour change. Spoiler: There are better ways to teach responsibility.

You’ll Learn:

→ Why public behaviour tracking systems (like traffic lights, peg boards, and sticker charts) often backfire

→ How these systems impact children’s self-concept, motivation, and behaviour

→ What to do when you’re expected to use them (but don’t want to)

→ Scripts and strategies for having brave conversations with leadership

→ Practical alternatives that support behaviour without shame or public spotlighting