Consequences Done Differently: A Respectful Approach to Behaviour Support

Consequences are often misunderstood, overused, or misused. More than this - not all consequences are created equal! This guide shows you how to move beyond punishment and use consequences in ways that teach, repair, and build trust. You’ll learn when to use them, when not to, and how to choose from tools like protective, collaborative, and logical consequences. Discipline without shame? Yes, please.

You’ll Learn:

→ The difference between logical, illogical, natural, and protective consequences

→ Why “teaching a lesson” often backfires — and what works better

→ The 5 Rs framework for using logical consequences without shame or punishment

→ Real-life scripts and examples of protective, collaborative, and co-created consequences

→ A self-check guide to help you decide: is this consequence teaching or reacting?